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Don’t dox yourself: Keeping lives separated
I’ve noticed three main perspectives on how kink and vanilla lifestyles intersect: This article is specifically for those in the ‘Separated’ category. In our increasingly interconnected world, maintaining…
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Waxplay 101
What is it? Wax play is a form of temperature and sensation play in which melted wax is dripped onto a person’s naked skin to introduce a slight…
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BDSM 101: First Aid
In our world there is the ever present risk of things going wrong. An impact from a toy could be too hard, an upline could fail, a knife…
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BDSM 101: RACK, SSC, and other frameworks
When entering into the BDSM community new comers are often met with a large number of various terminologies, acronyms, and more. Some of the first ones that new…
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BDSM 101: Safety in meeting up
Entering into a lifestyle such as this can often be an exciting and thrilling adventure. I often see new people eager to begin their journey, to learn, to…
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Electroplay 101
What is it? Electroplay, is a fairly common form of play throughout the BDSM community. Being an overall safe and versatile form of play it’s one that can…
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BDSM 101: Aftercare
What is aftercare? Aftercare is defined by Merriam Webster as: the care, treatment, help, or supervision given to persons discharged from an institution (such as a hospital) and…
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BDSM 101: Playing with others
One of the big things about our lifestyle is the abundance of different “activities” that we can partake in. These can be sexual or not, extremely dangerous or…
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BDSM 101: How to Vet
How do you vet someone? Should you vet people? What is vetting? What is? WHAT?!?~Lil Jon So these are questions that are regularly asked and I have yet…
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Waxplay: Types and temps
Wax play tends to be a big staple in our community. I see it at a lot of parties, and all over FetLife. Due to this, and sticking…
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